There are days where I feel "normal" I can move around get out of bed, clean, go out, and just resume day-to-day life.. And there are others where I'm as weak as a new born, I have to be held just to stand on my feet.. What bugs me is on the few good days when I'm energetic and able to be normal I get treated like a sick person :( Everyone around me gets a heart attack if I move.. They wanna do everything for me.. I know its to make me comfortable.. But on those few days I would LOVE to forget that am sick and just be a "normal" person.. Instead I get bombarded with "No No don't do that I'll do it for you".. I have energy I will do it.. I don't I won't.. Its not up to me, my body dictates my moves, even if I wanna push myself I cannot.. If I have No energy that means I have NO energy..
I hate that feeling I get when they make me feel sick, I am already sick, but I don't want to be treated like a sick person... Yes I joke around about cancer and play the "I have cancer, now go get me ice cream :p " cancer card but there are times where I want to forget I have cancer.. I don't want to be asked how am doing.. Ukhh its just frustrating to be sick and treated like the sick..
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tell them how u feel sweetie bas dont get mad or anything becus in the end they want whats best for u...
just be honest say i dont like to be treated this way...hopefully they listen :*
I was gonna suggest the same thing, let them know that there are times where you feel energetic and want to do things on your own.. Tell them that during these moments they should let you be because otherwise they make you feel like a sick person and you want to feel normal for once..
I'm sure they'll understand and tell them that when you can't do something you won't, as you said, so
they don't have to worry, you won't do anything unless you feel you can do it..
:) Praying for good results on Tues.
*insert the not interested face*
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it's a cultural thing ... although i hate actions like this (plus many more :) ) ... try to see it that its a cultural thing and its their way of showing that they care... so i agree ... let them know ... we miss the ability to be frank and have an open coversation in here ... Good luck
The not interested face is not relevent to the post :p
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The not interested face is not relevent to the post :p
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atwaqa3 it'll be very easy for them to get how ur feeling lana its common sense.. ur so tired of feeling sick all the time that when u have the ability to act normally, u wanna take advantage of it.. what u said seemed pretty straightforward to me, next time u have a burst of energy (tomorrow, inshalah?) just tell them eli ketabteeh..
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Hi Iam Prabhu from chennai,joined today in this forum... :)
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