Monday, 3 August 2009

I Forgot the Title :/

Amen!

+ I'm being a very very bad bloggerette.. I read blogs sometimes and forget to comment and other times I don't read a thing for a while.. Apologies for being a bad FourMe :/ Am I forgiven?

+ I'm tired of being polite to people that I don't wanna talk to nor see.. if only my system can be reprogrammed and this goddamn niceness in me gets deleted..

+ This post is absolute bullshit.. But am bored and I need to talk or I'll bang my head against the wall from boredom :/

+ The following was a phone call between a friend and some chick he hooked up with..
Her: I cant talk to you. I'm married and I have kids
Him: Then why did you take my number?
Her: I don't know. I want to talk to you.
Him: Now what?
Her: My sister doesn't approve but I really want to talk to you.
Him: What do you exactly want?
Her: I'll talk to you here (London) but when we get to Kuwait can we keep it just on-line because I'll be busy with my husband..

Magool ela 6ayaa7 alaah 7athich w 7ath elmdamaagh eli makhthich wily raqmich..

+ What constitutes cheating?
-Sleeping with someone behind your spouse/partners back?
-Having on-line communications with the opposite gender without the knowledge of your spouse/partner?
- Having a wandering eye?

Really will someone explain to me what cheating is? Because everyone seems to define it in their own way..

++++ Does anyone know when Greys Anatomy, Gossip Girl, and Brothers & Sisters will start airing again?

+ Me likey this song..

20 comments:

Anony said...

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Anony said...

Chebaaaaaaaa7!

Abi-Omi-Abi-Oboy said...

I think all three of them are cheating .. bas a wandering eye to an extent. Ako guys ekhezoon min na7yat legaaaffa w ako eli ette7areshon w yetmate3on.. so yeah ;p

Past Expiry said...

A cartoon about attitude:

http://pastexpiry.blogspot.com/2009/08/cartoon-attitude-adjustment.html

Grey said...

DOn't mind, even me a lurker , but dont comment most of the time... :P

moi said...

LOL ofcourse u're forgiven;p!! wth:o that woman is so miserable! i would never even "chat online" with a dude behind my husband's back! it's sick because honestly if he did that to me it'll feel like cheating!

Anonymous said...

1 word fa93aaaa:@@ i hope she get caught

Ahmed's 819 said...

lol, liked the Pic

Âme said...

This is a good read.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infidelity

Check the 3rd paragraph for what is considered as cheating in some cases.

You might also be interested in reading..
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/infidelity/MH00110

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Most of the people who think they are not committing adultery, would be committing Infidelity.

For those who don't want to visit the above links:

Infidelity is a violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of an intimate relationship, which constitutes a significant breach of faith or a betrayal of core shared values with which the integrity of the relationship is defined. In common use, it describes an act of unfaithfulness to one’s husband, wife, or lover, whether sexual or non-sexual in nature.

Source Wikipedia

~ Soul

Âme said...

Adultery is also referred to as extramarital sex, philandery, or INFIDELITY, but does not include fornication.

~ Soul

The Extravagate said...

If it’s a feeling its not consider as cheating cause ppl cant help what they feel anything else in my opinion is

answer to ur Q ~ Most of the best t.v shows will start on sept until then I recommend entourage, weeds, hung <3

zuz said...

3ama eb3ainha:/..enshallah mat'3azil min wara elrayel y3ni:/, LOOOOOL el pic sooo true:O

serenade said...

+ akeed forgiven, i'm a lurker too ;)

+ learn to wear a mask,,, have it ready for those awkward moments when you see people you don't want to see and move on

+ talk babe all you want

+ it's all cheating!! don't want to judge, but what kind of a person is she?!

+ all of the shows will be back soon after ramadan

xoxo

f7ee7eely said...

I am a bit reluctant to make few (actually too many)confessions on your blog regarding adultry....I am afraid some might take it the other way around or be quick on passing on judgements and harsh criticism....

f7ee7eely said...

but in a nutshell i have reached a point in the past where i have adhered to the old french saying ...... toutes les femmes sont des putains excepté ma mère

Shalalala said...

So many actions that can fall under the umbrella of cheating; or they may not. It depends on the intention of the spouse involved in that act. Even a wink can be that if the intention was there.

But, for her to grab a number? Puh-leez!

I know of a guy who goes around chasing girls' cars in streets; until one day he ended up harassing his wife's cousins and their friends accidentally. The cousins are not close enough to tell the wife, and of course HE won't tell his wife. How does that make the wife look? Clueless!

And that's how this b****'s husband is gonna be seen: clueless.
Kalbah!

FourMe said...

anon:
7ada
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abi omi:
yup the ones that stare not as just looking but looking in a way that undresses you..
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past expiry:
nice..
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grey:
hey mate nice to see ya around :)
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moi:
:* thanx gorgeous..
I know.. isn't it so sad! yaa i see that as cheating as well.
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anonymous:
same here..
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ahmed:
yup nice one and accurate :p
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ame~soul:
thanx will give it a read..
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the extravagate:
feeling is the worse way of cheating! suppose you're sitting with your spouse and deep inside they wish you were someone else.. if that's not cheating I don't know what is..

when its something physical it could be meaningless but when you feel something it becomes more intimate.. which is just wrong..
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zuz:
honey a large percent of women and men do it these days.. its sick :/
I knoooow ain't it :p
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serenade:
.cool :)
.if only my friends would leave me alone and stop putting me in awkward situations I'd be fine and won't have to deal with such people :/
.exactly its all cheating.. it can be justified here and there but cheating is cheating..
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f7ee7eely:
who gives a damn about what people think let it rip.. what have you done young man..
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shalalala:
poor girl.. its so sad when others know about the cheating spouse but no one tells their partner..
shame on them..

falantan said...

about the cheating definition, I was thinking about the same thing the other day.

"cheating" implies that the contract between the husband and wife has been breached, that he or her did something wrong towards their spouse.

I think that's not accurate 100%.

I think the wrong doing is only based on skewing away from God's way in the matter. ya3ne, Allah tells us to NOT have "relations" with the opposite sex without the intention of marriage (that's how I understand it atleast).

So I think any kind of exclusivly 2-sided "relations" be it online chatting, phone, secret escapade travel, etc. is all wrong because its against Allah's teaching. 7araam. not because it angers the spouse. illi ma yer3a 5g Allag ma yer3a 5g ilspouse aslan.

falantan said...

and to f7ee7eely:

I had to put that in google translate, and it offended me heavily. 3aib hal kalam.

you feel by masking it in french it makes it ok to insult people? like insulting americans on a subway in arabic is ok with you I suppose?

don't you think that's cowardly ontop of being low mannered? you couldn't have said that in english could you? you musta felt that "hmmm.. that's too vulgar.. I should say it in french", no?

its really astounding how some people feel that as long as others don't know who they are, or what they're saying about other people, then its perfectly fine for them to lower their moral standards.

shoosha said...

f7ee7ely!

mo min 9ijjik 9a7?