Wednesday, 25 February 2009

Always in the Heart..


She was in love with him for 7 years and engaged to him but came a time and they had to break up. She is now married for two years and is very much in love with her husband and their newly born child..

We were sitting and talking about random things when within the conversation she wanted to say something about one of my cousins but in stead she said her Ex's name! She tried to change the subject but her husbands face changed straight away and I swear to you I could see sadness in his eyes.. the look on his face broke my heart.. He already knew about her ex because he was her fiance.. She was so sad because her tongue slipped and mentioned the Ex she said after so long you get used to the name and keeps on saying it even though she does not love him anymore.. But this causes so many arguments between them.. She says every time it happens her husband get extremely angry and starts arguing because he knows that even though she doesn't love him anymore but she still has a place for him in her heart no matter what happens..

I just wish to God that I never get put in that situation because it causes so much pain for both the husband and the wife :(

24 comments:

Silver said...

ouch...that stings!

i feel bad for the husband, even though it's understandable that the name may slip every once in while, it still hurts

:/

atoona said...

its only human to know someone or friend That long and not forget them.. its not like she's doing it on purpose.. the husband is not to blame if he got annoyed a little, but i think its better 4 both if he cut her some slack.

Neoark said...

yknow that shows how both of husband and wife love each other, if you looked how both are affected emotionally by that name slipped.

Ruby Woo said...

I know she didn't mean it, but I understand why her husband gets hurts.

It's always hard to forget someone that was embedded in your heart for so long..

Stand-Alone~ said...

ouch!!
sigh,, after all, you are only human..

My cousin married a guy who has the same name as her ex lool.. no confusion there =p

moi said...

she'll never forget him.

MeeMzZ said...

ohhh my god being a grown up and getting married is seriouse shit...

anyways inshallah you wont be thrown in those situations...wayn ri7at ana..lol inshallah i wont be thrown in those situations too...GOOLAY AMEEN!!

AND good luck to her ow allah isahil 3alyaha!!

Âme said...

Its a known fact that when you love someone, they stay in your heart forever, however infinitesimally faint.

Her husband should not ignore the above fact.

Now that she is married to him, he can put to best what he has and what she has got for their relationship.

Brooding and arguing over, which won't go is no solution.

Acceptance is the only way to happiness for both of them.

~ Soul

S E 7 E N said...

allah i3eenhoom :(

TOOTA said...

well i'm over my first love and i wish if he had he would get over his!!;/

libero anima said...

OWH !
a7es that's embarrassing ..
i wouldn't know what to say in a situation like this.. i'd be upset if i was in the mans situation ..

f7ee7eely said...

hooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwah elle gaboo elnafsoh --- y3ny yoom ennek tdre enha maytah feeeeeeeeeeeeeeh shakoo etdesh 3alaihum belkha6 --- khalaa9 she is scarred for life and new cure can heal her open wound.....yestahel bs ham yakser elkha6er

Squirreliya said...

it is hard to forget him, she'll never do ..w ma aloom el husband, although he must understand enha mo mit3amda ;/

Oranjina fadidra said...

holly crap! I hate to be in her shoes ;\

Livingmylife said...

been there done that ..

and let me tell u .. ITS THE WORSE FEELING IN THE WORLD! U FEEL LIKE KICKING URSELF OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!

;/
Xxo

Livingmylife said...

o shay thani .. wana ga3da agra the comments .. it has NOTHING to do with her being still inlove with him .. or even the slightest ..

its just ena elsanha met3awid 3ala his name .. thats it

Xxo

Hasan.B said...

Nshala mat6a7ish eb mawqif zayi kida!

Hasan.B said...

Law ana menha agol; sorry "typo"!!

Diablo said...

el 3ishg balwa

Candy said...

she mentioned her ex name,after years of marriage?? @@!
maybe she is stil talkin 2 him or meeting him...
na9ee7a le wajh el lah agool 5alha trayee7 3omerha o come 2 her ex :D
"sho hal 5arab candy?"

PaLoMiNo said...

ouch :(

inshala ma7d yn7a6 eb hal mwqif!!!

TheLittleLifeOfMe said...

Tagged youu.

Euphoria said...

Been there but Shit happens!

Shoush said...

That's so sad. :/