Tuesday, 15 April 2008

Grays Are Back!

No I'm not talking about our favourite doctors I'm talking about my beloved Gray hairs..

You'd think a female my age would have just a couple scattered here and there! But FourMe is no ordinary lady! She has to outdo herself and the rest of the female gender in every possible way!!

Grays, Grays, GraYsSss everywhere I look there are Gray hairs. Some my age don't have a strand of gray hair in their locks.. My grays have reached a pathetic point, covering well over half my head.. My mother looks at my hair and tells me you gotta colour your hair ASAP!! The silver glare is of a blinding nature.. I colour the roots on a monthly bases and that's because I'm lazy plus I don't want to keep on damaging my hair. If I was one of those ladies who are obsessed with their looks and go for the flawless appearance I would have to colour my beautiful silvers every fortnight buy hey screw it! They are part of me and I like them yet I don't like them enough to leave them hanging around for more than a month.

I got my first Gray Hair at the age of 13, and you'd think its hereditary but its not in my case, I am a destructive human being waiting to happen, my short fuses and bad bad temper has earned me the pleasure of developing such elegant silver linings. Each cluster of grays have a story. I know which phase in my life caused which cluster to turn into a silver memory. I know so and so caused the bottom left into a gray area while the whole of the top right belongs to my beloved soulmate.. How ironic he's no longer with me yet a part of my hair belongs to him!

Well you know what gray or not I'm still a lady with style.. Hell I create my own style I ain't perfect nor flawless but sure as hell I won't hide my beloved silvers.. Each strand has a story and each story talks of a struggle and each struggle shows my strength and I ain't no flimsy that can be broken. They might be turning gray but hell they are stronger than the coloured ones!


*Gray hair is a blessing - ask any bald man.
Author Unknown

43 comments:

ZaMaHReeR said...

Don't worry ... il shaib waqar.. at least that what I tell my friends when they tell me u are getting old :P
Stress, Bad temper, Depression.. The Gray hair stimulants .. don't worry about others.

FourMe said...

No worry in sight. I actually like my grays :) heheh and the waqar bit was made up by a gray haired person so that's definitely not true :p gray is just gray....

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

I say to thee: http://hubpages.com/hub/Beauty_Tips_For_Women__Gray_Hair_Is_Sexy_

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

and if you're not careful, I might declare a part of your head in the name of the Crazed Man.

: O

eshda3wa said...

i love that u love ur grays

yay you!

FourMe said...

Crazed dude:
nice article.. cheers mate.

Stop forcing yourself upon me.. Boy you have to win me over to earn a strand of silver amongst my locks..

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eshda3wa:
hehehe Yaaay Me too :) seriously I do love them and if it wasn't for everyone around me nagging me to dye them I'd keep them..

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

you're welcome.

lol i dont force myself on anyone period and im pretty sure i already have

FourMe said...

Crazed dude:
you're dreams shall never turn into a reality..

Oh I forgot to mention that arrogance is the plague that ruins the male gender.. your arrogance is your enemy while your humility is your saviour..

Moi said...

3adii.. let gooo and dont worry

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

Whose to say it's a dream? It takes some gall for one to assume that they are the occupier of one's dreams, no? :D

The act of accusing one of being arrogant is an act of arrogance in itself. Humility is a trait that shows itself at times most unexpected of it and rears it's modest face in some places, not all.

Also, if it were not for man's 'plague' of arrogance, humanity as we know it would never prosper for it takes some amount of arrogance to make progress in any field or matter.

And if I dare say so, vanity would be the plague of the female gender.


"I can make ANY man fall in love with me"
Fourme


"The demand to be loved is the greatest of all arrogant presumptions."
Friedrich Nietzsche

You are quite the feisty one I must say :P

FourMe said...

Crazed Dude:
Lol so how long did that essay take you to write? :p

Lets go from the bottom up:
"I can make ANY man fall in love with me" FourMe <-- when quoting one, one should quote the complete statement, if not it would be taken out of context, as you just have done.

I said that I have that affect on men AND I hate it, hence the endless rejections.

I am not vain nor am I boasting about the ability of making men fall for me. I was simply stating a fact. That is not vanity. Vanity is: stating that I do it on purpose and enjoy doing it to fulfil whatever vain needs I have. And that my dear friend is not what I said.

"lol i dont force myself on anyone period and im pretty sure I already have" Crazed Man.

The assumption that you have already influenced my life in a way or the other is a clear example of the arrogance that I was referring to.

Women in general or no I'm generalizing here so let me rephrase that; I personally don't appreciate arrogance in a man, it only proves his inability to show his humility as you stated its a trait and such comes out in the way he speaks (the case here being as he comments).

And yes I am a feisty one and dare I say a one that you cannot handle!

Now the last 2 lines are an example of vanity :)

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

Crazed Dude:
Lol so how long did that essay take you to write? :p

--hmm like 5 minutes, most of the 5 minutes i spent looking for a cool quote :D

Lets go from the bottom up:
"I can make ANY man fall in love with me" FourMe <-- when quoting one, one should quote the complete statement, if not it would be taken out of context, as you just have done.

I said that I have that affect on men AND I hate it, hence the endless rejections.

--Bah, I took the non-important stuff out

I am not vain nor am I boasting about the ability of making men fall for me. I was simply stating a fact. That is not vanity. Vanity is: stating that I do it on purpose and enjoy doing it to fulfil whatever vain needs I have. And that my dear friend is not what I said.

"lol i dont force myself on anyone period and im pretty sure I already have" Crazed Man.

The assumption that you have already influenced my life in a way or the other is a clear example of the arrogance that I was referring to.

--hmmm the same applies to u for u assumed u influenced my life ;p

Women in general or no I'm generalizing here so let me rephrase that; I personally don't appreciate arrogance in a man, it only proves his inability to show his humility as you stated its a trait and such comes out in the way he speaks (the case here being as he comments).

--1 comment here does not determine if I am humble or not.

And yes I am a feisty one and dare I say a one that you cannot handle!

--lol I think otherwise.

Now the last 2 lines are an example of vanity :)

--Or truth? :D

FourMe said...

No you took it out of context hence making me say something I didn't say plus you based an assumption on it. Making your comment invalid seeing it was based on an invalid foundation.

I don't recall saying I influenced your life. Quote me again but this time give me an accurate quote.

I am basing my judgement on your comments. I cannot judge on what I do not know, therefore my judgement is based on your comments and the attitude that I see here.

It's not a matter whether the last line was applicable to me or not, I was just showing you a clear example of vanity.

Soul said...

OMGGGGG!!!!! u know what! screw BLogger ok! i've been checking ur blog kel sa3a o it was still 3la el post mal el shut-eyes!

suddenly i refresh wella new post maktoob men zmaaan o fee comments @@ o 7addddaaaa 6afneee el emda7aaaaaar :/


anyway u t bassssssss LOOOL

u know they say that a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicyle! bwahahahahaha

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

humor is humble notion


I WIN

: O

FourMe said...

Soul:
9a7 enom 7abeebat galby taw enaaas :p
heheh ee 6afich Act 3 Scene 1 lol

Looool wily yer7am waldaich meno el 3abqary ely gayil hal 7achwa??

==

Crazed 'Fragile' Dude:
Humour is a characteristic not a trait!

You lose ..

FourMe 1 - nil Crazed

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

humor is a humble notion and the act of being humorous is a trait which is the same as a characteristic



BOOM-SHAKA-lAKA

Soul said...

Gloria Steinem galat'ha o matat 3ogobha eb 5 years.. hahahaha 7ash'ha qa7a6 o taqashof maskeena.


humor is a generous gesture from the dominant competitor to ease things a bit for the enemy and give him a chance to collect himself and fight back ;p


F.S alliance: 2
Crazed muchacho: zilch

;p

FourMe said...

Crazed Dude:
did the coffee and pop tarts get to you!? What are you on about?? having a sense of humour has nothing to do with how humble you are. That just shows an aspect of you personality but it does not fall under the category of 'humility'.

looool seriously! "BOOM-SHAKA-lAKA"!! it sounds like you just jumped out of a video clip from the 80's!

We shall continue Act 3 Scene 2 at a later stage as for now, I am knackered..

==

Soul:
lol wa3laya 3alaiha 7alt'ha kanat 9a3ba heheh..

No worries I can take him down by myself lool .. may6awil sa3a eb edy :P (and I'm being generous here)

7ilwa el alliance yazatly ;)

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

ay shaaaaaay i thought u were going to be nice to me 5altee soul : (

i wanna tag up with my 'ally' but he is asleep like a baby :(

Big Pearls said...

I know a lot of people who started getting grey hair early..and I've gotta say they have the most beautiful hair..grey hair is nothing to be ashamed of..love ur attitude:)

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

you have cooties... there I said it.

you cannot take me 1v1, a9lan I lost interest in the debate hence the unwitty replies.

Yes he who does battle with me only comes out scathed and fatigued ^_^

FourMe said...

al7en ako wa7id ygool 7ag wa7da azghar mina khalty? ohh wait I guess being a charmer isn't one of your characteristics..

Thank you , thaaank you :D


FourMe Over & OuTT

Crazed Man in Tattered Robes and Straw Sandals said...

and the humble cannot define humility.

don't think of me when you sleep ! gnite lol

Soul said...

el 7emdella kalait ;p

fourme:

i know u can take him down solo baby entaay seb3aaaaaaaa grrrrrrrrrrrr

crazed:

i am nice! but i support my buddies first! faz3aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ya walaaaaad

Soul said...

Fourme u sleep :/

Organic Kuwait said...

a japanese study states that too much dairy consumption causes hair to go gray.
all the guys my husbands age have gray hair and my dairy free husband doesnt even have one ! i keep telling him we will have to introduce some dairy when we r 40 because i actually love gray hair!

Fashionated said...

teach me o wise one! i have 9 gray hairs o bamoooot

shoosha said...

whats ur colors hair? itha its kind of light then the gray's will be thay3een bil 6oosha

Amethyst said...

My friend has gray hairs (like a streak), and I think it's hot;p

Ms. D said...

im already dreading the day i might catch the glimpse of a "gray" in my hair :(... why? cuz i already have no hair to cover my scalp.. so whats gonna happen to my head when i get to color on monthly basis!!!!!! HELLO BALDY!

FourMe said...

Moi:
ain't worrying.. I'm embracing :)
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soul:
Ya I crashed, system failure :p
hehehehe lovin da faz3aa :*
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Crazed Maniac:
I was knackered not because of the little debate we had, was knackered because I took strong painkillers.. don't flatter yourself.. you don't have that influence on me :p
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Organic Kuwait:
I don't consume any dairy products! just the occasional slice of cheese here and there..

hehehee he's a lucky one.. I agree I like gray hair on men too, adds a certain essence to them..
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fashionated:
9 w btmooten!! 3ayal lw 3indich ely 3indy chan eshswaitay..dear gray hair doesn't indicate your old.. leave them and embrace them :)
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shosha:
Black, ya3ni min t6la3 wa7da it shines like a rainbow..
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amethyst:
I agree.. but the streak is different, I think its caused by something, to be honest I can't remember..
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Ms.D:
honey gray is nothing to be feared, stop believing that women are flawless and they don't grow old. who cares a gray here or there its just a colour.. plus I think its not your time yet, you have a long way ahead of you..

F. said...

Gray hair is sexy. Full stop.

..::Amu::.. said...

yay yay yay :D

Anonymous said...

grey hair is nice :D .. i dont know why ppl dont like it !

New Bride said...

oh it`s nothing i have grays hair mn zmaaaaaaaaaaan i was 14 or 15 when i first noticed :)

G and L said...

gray adds character to a person..be proud of them! which you are so thats good :D

FourMe said...

f. :
I Agree!
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amu:
Yipee, Yipppee, YaaaaaY!
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Anonymous:
I guess ppl see it as a sign of ageing and these days no one ages!
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newbride:
13 here :)
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g and l:
I like my silvers they are a part of me :)

Soul said...

oh! ana 3alagt 3al comments o nesait a3aleg 3la ur grey hair!

i think its sexy too! b3dain black hair, grey hair, banafseje hair mayhem! u r beautiful hun everything 3alaich 7elo ;)

FourMe said...

Eee 3ady hal post 9ar khal6abee6a
E3yoonich el7ilwa :*
lol imagine banfsejy yakhtich a9er filimm..

Soul said...

^^ is another Soul

If you ever go to the beach, take some tan protection.

You got less melanin.

And hey, the silver treasure attitude rocks.

~ Soul

FourMe said...

Soul (the other 1):
ok that was confusing..
Ya I tend to burn quickly and easily :/
thank you dear :)

Anonymous said...

at least we know you went to an american school... lol.. but i would think after spending so much time in the UK you would spell it "grey" and not "gray"-the american spelling..